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One Final Reminder: Just B.R.E.A.T.H.E

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2009

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Today is our final training session together before I send you out on your own - physically fit and prepped for your writing marathon! If you are just joining us, please check out the previous training posts on how to physically support your writing: B – Breathe, R – Rest & Relaxation, E – Ergonomics .

 

“A”  means Atmosphere:

 

Ever gone to a restaurant and felt like a jet-setter? Ever visited a spa and relaxed the minute you stepped in the door? The atmosphere evokes the experience.

 

What experience is evoked when you sit down at your computer? And it doesn’t matter whether your computer is in a secluded office or a corner of the busiest room of your house.  Do you feel like a brilliant, talented, successful author? Or do you feel like a schizophrenic multi-tasker? Is the view pleasing to the eye? Or does it further stress you out because all you see is unfinished business?

 

Evoking the appropriate atmosphere can be as simple as putting some fresh (or artificial) flowers on your desk to as extensive as repainting, consulting feng shui or going on a shopping spree for new desk furniture (for those of you who are independently wealthy). Think about what colors, textures, patterns, and/or items soothe you while also making you feel confident and successful. Maybe you worked really hard for a degree. Hang your diploma. Maybe you pulled off a spectacular party. Put out a favor from the party. Or perhaps, you associate the color red with success. Add some red to your desk or your office. This is incredibly personal. Make discovering how to create a success-evoking atmosphere part of your self-discovery.

 

If you do nothing else, clear the clutter! Clutter sucks your energy and inspiration. That doesn’t necessarily mean dealing with the clutter – maybe pack it away in nice boxes that fit your taste so that you aren’t staring it in the face as soon as you sit down to write. (Then deal with it a little at a time…see below).

 

Give me a “T” for Timer:

 

OK, so I’m straying just a bit from my original plan of helping you to create a strong physical foundation for your writing, but hear me out. As authors we are spread pretty thin – marketing, promoing, and, oh yeah, writing. Many of us have multiple roles, holding down full-time day jobs, raising children, managing a household, striving for a healthy relationship or marriage and, oh yeah, writing. That creates a lot of stress.

 

I’ve found using my little timer (my best friend – in a weird time management way) significantly lessens that stress.

 

You can get a heck of a lot done in fifteen minutes! I can pay a few bills, make a couple phone calls, empty the dishwasher, switch over loads of laundry, return a few emails or write a page (OK, a paragraph on a mediocre day or a sentence on a really bad one) in fifteen minutes. If I set my timer several times and knock a to-do or two off my list, I can sit down and write a little less fragmented.

 

Give it a try. What do you have to lose (other than some stress and a couple to-dos)? For more sage advice on using a timer and breaking projects down into small pieces, check out www.FlyLady.net .

 

“H” represents Healthy Eating:

 

I know, I can hear the groans…I’m not going to beat you over the head with this. I love my Cheese Nips and Starbuck’s as much as the next gal, but we know healthy food and lots of water are good for us. It’s good for our writing too.

 

Enough said!

 

And for a real “kicker”… “E” means Exercise:

 

More groans…

 

And I’m groaning right along with you. I hate, loathe and despise exercise, but some of my best pages have been written after a quick fifteen minute walk around the neighborhood (I take my timer)! Get a little aerobic exercise several times a week. Your body and your writing will thank you.

 

Also, don’t neglect stretching. It’s your key to remaining injury free! We are training for a marathon, remember? There are books about how to stretch at your desk (see Resources below). Find your timer, work for thirty to sixty minutes then take a two minute stretch break. It works – take it from a woman just coming off a painful back problem!

 

Also, watch my website (www.tiffanyjames.net). A new page will be appearing soon. Any idea what it’s going to be called? Yep, “Just B.R.E.A.T.H.E.”. I’ll be posting more great tips on how to stay fit and in prime writing shape as well as some videos of exercises you can do right from your desk chair.

 

 

Had enough? Feeling primed and in peak condition for your writing marathon? If so, I’ll see you at the finish line, multiple books and cheering readers in hand!

 

Want more information? Have questions? Got an inspirational story about physically supporting your writing? I’d love to hear from you! Comment below and/or email me at Tiffany@TiffanyJames.net . And watch for “Just B.R.E.A.T.H.E. : Creating a Physical Foundation for Your Writing” coming to a conference near you!

 

Resources:

 

OFFICE YOGA: Simple Stretches for Busy People by Darrin Zeer

OFFICE YOGA: At-Your-Desk Exercises by Diana Fairechild

COMFORT AT YOUR COMPUTER by Paul Linden

GET FIT WHILE YOU SIT by Charlene Torkelson

 

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“E” in Just B.R.E.A.T.H.E.

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

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“E” is all about Ergonomics:

 

Cumulatively, we writers spend hours and hours at the computer. That can lead to, at the least, aches and pains and, at the worst, progressive motion injuries (“trigger finger” for frequent mouse users) or sustained position problems (neck pain, “frozen” backs).

 

One thing you can do to dramatically increase your odds of avoiding these hassles is to have an ergonomic workstation. Ergonomics is the study of the relationship between workers and their work environments with an emphasis on “minimizing occupational stress through improving work station design” (DESKERCISE, pg IX).

 

First, let’s talk about our chairs. According to DESKERCISE the goal of a properly adjusted chair is to “maintain the curve in the lower back and to minimize the stress on the upper back, shoulders and arms” (pg. 34). We can maintain that position by looking at our seat height, seat angle and lumbar support.

 

You want your seat at a height that puts your elbows at or just slightly above your desk. You want your elbows to be bent to between 90 and 110 degrees. Contrary to what we often hear (and what I’ve said in the past), a ninety degree angle isn’t necessarily optimum for your hip joint because that can cause the lower back to flatten. This is where seat angle comes into play. It’s best to have your seat angled slightly back if you’re doing a lot typing. This presses the back against the lumbar support. Just be careful that in this position you aren’t pressing the edge of the seat into the back of your thighs (you should be able to slide your hand between the seat and your thighs – if you can’t, you can use a foot rest to lift the legs up slightly. Try to maintain a 90 degree angle at the ankles, though.). If you’re doing a lot of reading or writing, it’s best to have your seat angled slightly forward which helps maintain the curve of the lower back. The operative term here is slightly.

 

Lumbar support is just what it says it is. Make sure yours hits your back at the lumbar area (where it curves slightly forward). When adjusted properly, it supports the muscles of the lower back as well as transfers weight from your upper body to the pillow instead of it being on your lower back.

 

Also, a quick note about arm rests. Try to adjust them so that your forearms are resting lightly on them while you work. This can save added stress on your neck and upper back.

 

Try to keep things you use frequently within arms’ reach. That can also save stress on your body from bending and reaching.

 

Here’s an exercise from YOGA FOR COMPUTER USERS that can help build up the muscles you use in sitting properly at your desk:

 

Sit at the very edge of a stable chair, with your feet hip-width apart and planted firmly on a non-skid surface or mat. Move your weight forward so that you are sitting on the front edge of your sit bones, rather than rolling back on your gluteal muscles.

 

Place your hands on your hips, and rock your pelvis so the muscles of the hip sockets loosen up and you find the most upright position for the pelvis. The front hipbones should be lifting slightly off the thighbones, and the sacrum should be moving in and up toward your head, rather than slumping back toward the back of the chair. This rocking motion should help you feel the difference between a collapsed spine and a spine that is supported by the rotation and lift of the pelvis.

 

Now, close your eyes and let your shoulders relax. Become aware of your alignment. You want your shoulders balanced directly above your pelvis and the crown of your head over the tailbone. As you strive for this position, try not to pull up with your back muscles but lift from the hip sockets and sacrum, lengthening your spine. Keep the back of your neck and skull long, and the chin relaxed, with your jaw parallel to the floor. Imagine space opening up between each vertebrae and your head feel light, like a helium balloon.

 

Start with a minute and work your way up to longer time periods. You can do this at any point during the day!

 

Good luck with creating an ergonomic workspace and dodging those aches and pains.

 

Some questions for you: Did your mom or dad or grandma, etc. hector you about your posture? Did you pay attention? Do you wish you would have?

 

Feel free to email me at Tiffany@TiffanyJames.net if you have questions or want more information!

 

Resources:

 

DESKERCISE by Todd Berntson

YOGA FOR COMPUTER USERS by Sandy Blaine

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Time for some “R & R”…

Monday, April 20th, 2009

“Never be afraid to sit awhile and think.”
~ Lorraine Hansberry


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“Making time for rest is an investment in your future,

in your brain, in your creativity, in your stamina,

and in your success.

~ Hank Phillippi Ryan

in The 101 Habits of Highly Successful Novelists by Andrew McAleer

 

 

Happy Monday!

 

Today, I’m continuing my “Just B.R.E.A.T.H.E” series…

 

A quick review: We are creating a strong physical foundation for our participation in the all-uphill marathon of writing. (Isn’t that what being an author sometimes feels like?) Our chosen event is full of obstacles (less then stellar contest results, editor and agent rejections, characters who simply refuse to talk to us, hours sitting in front of the computer) and fierce competition.

 

Would you jump into a marathon without any training? Heck no! You’d do everything possible to prepare, to be the best you could be and to triumph over obstacles and the competition. So, slap on those sweats, tennis shoes and headband…here we go!

 

Today it’s all about the “R”: Rest and Relaxation…

 

For our purposes, the term rest refers to times when we are taking it easy or “not doing” and times when we are actually sleeping. And they’re both important for successful completion of our writing marathon!

 

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We’ve all done it – pulled an extra late night or early morning to get some writing done amidst mountains of laundry, deadlines at our “day job”, carpooling, kids’ events, grocery shopping, housecleaning, cooking dinner, cracking the whip during homework time…

 

But before you nix your time in the Land of Nod, think about this: sleep provides physical and mental support for your writing. Shakespeare called sleep “nature’s soft nurse” in reference to its restorative functions. While you’re snoozing your body is busy recovering from the day by fixing microscopic injuries to muscles, skin and bones as well as boosting your immune system so that you can fight off illness (keeping you at the computer where you belong instead of sick in bed). Mentally, sleep facilitates much needed time away, allowing your ideas to “marinate”. According to Mark Jung-Beeman, a psychologist at Northwestern University, “Sleep makes a unique contribution” to our ability to incubate and form ideas. “When you think you’re not thinking about something, you probably are,” he says. (To read more click here.)

 

Snagging a short nap during the day can also be good for your writing. Dr. Sara Mednick, author of Take A Nap! Change Your Life, says that the right nap at the right time “increases alertness, boosts creativity, reduces stress, improves perception, stamina, motor skills, and accuracy…”

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An interesting tidbit: Google installed futuristic loooking recliners with noise and light blocking hoods called EnergyPods so their employees can nap then return to work refreshed and more productive.

 

So, the next time you want to skip out on some zzz’s, think about how sleep might be contributing to your written masterpiece!

 

 

 

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In his book Healthy Aging, Dr. Andrew Weil says, “The essence of rest is not doing – that is, being passive on both the physical and mental levels.” Rest makes us better writers in much the same way as sleeping. It refreshes our bodies and recharges our minds.

 

Rest is simple but it’s, by no means, easy. We are so programmed to use every spare moment, multi-tasking and mentally checking off our never-ending to-do’s as we race through the day.

 

Try to find fifteen or twenty minutes today for rest, enjoying the fresh air and sunshine, swinging in a hammock, soaking in a bubblebath…whatever facilitates being passive, doing nothing for you.

 

Or use that twenty minutes for relaxation. When we consciously relax, we are purposely acting on our nervous system, engaging the “rest and digest” branch (also called the parasympathetic nervous system). When this part of our nervous system is in charge, our heart rate and breathing slow and our blood pressure drops as do the amount of stress inducing hormones and neurotransmitters in our brain and blood stream. The tension in our muscles melts away and our blood flow improves. Like when we are sleeping, our body and mind restores itself. After a relaxation recess, our concentration increases and we have more energy.

 

Deep breathing is one effective relaxation technique. You can read more here.

You can also try progressive relaxation: start at your feet (or your head, whichever you prefer), tense then relax that part of your body. I like to visualize each part of my body detaching and floating away after I tense it. But you can also imagine it heavy and leaden too. Now move on to the next part of your body and the next and the next, until you’re one limp noodle. Stay there for a few minutes and yes, you guessed it, breathe.

 

Another relaxation technique is visualization. Mentally transport yourself to a warm and sunny beach or a hidden, verdant oasis – any destination that conjures up sighs of blissful repose will get the job done. You can enhance the experience by playing a nature sounds CD.

 

Yoga, Tai Chi, listening to relaxing music, and, my personal favorite, getting a massage are other effective techniques for relaxation.

 

I hope you can find a few minutes today to strengthen your writing’s physical foundation by resting or relaxing! Hey, you might surprise yourself and get more done than usual.

 

What’s your favorite way to rest and/or relax? Does it improve your writing? Life in general?

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Just B.R.E.A.T.H.E.

Monday, March 30th, 2009

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Before I decided I wanted to be a writer, I worked as a massage therapist. The vast majority of my clients suffered from tight shoulders, neck and back aches or carpal tunnel-like symptoms. I was constantly reminding them how hard the age of computers is on our bodies. I suggested that they stop every 30 minutes to an hour for a short stretch or ramble around the office. I reminded them to drink plenty of water and get the rest they needed, etc. Quite often it seemed these suggestions fell on deaf ears. “Don’t they want to get better?” I’d ask myself. “Don’t they see that a little effort could go a long way?” I wondered.

 

Fast forward fifteen months, about 200,000 words, a couple of blogs, several handfuls of classes…

 

About a month ago, I was whining to my husband about how my back and neck hurt and how that pain seemed to be moving into my shoulder. “Well, you have been sitting at the computer a lot lately,” he answered, oh so helpfully.

 

DUH!

 

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black! I’d become my clients with whom, only a few months earlier, I’d been so frustrated. After several similar conversations with some of my author friends, I decided that maybe we authors needed a gentle kick in the pants (myself included). I mean come on, how can we do our best work when our physical foundation is hurting, aching, crumbling?

 

So I decided to channel my massage therapist self and pass on some gentle reminders, to help us all “Just B.R.E.A.T.H.E.”. Each letter stands for a different way in which we can physically support our writing. Today we’re going to talk about “B” for breathing. It’s a relatively easy place to start – we’ll work our way into the harder stuff (where we actually have to get off our duffs and move away from the computer screen. “No, say it isn’t so!” my writer self is crying). :0)

 

Most of this information isn’t new to us. We’ve all heard it before, but maybe we can see it a little differently by realizing how it applies to our work as writers.

 

So, imagine yourself an athlete competing in the arduous, demanding sport of Olympic writing. We’re prepping for the all-uphill marathon. (Isn’t that what being an author sometimes feels like?) And it’s one heck of a race full of obstacles (less then stellar contest results, editor and agent rejections, characters who simply refuse to talk to us) and fierce competition.

 

Would you jump into a marathon without any training? Heck no! You’d do every possible thing you could to prepare, to be the best you could be and to triumph. So, slap on those sweats, tennis shoes and headband…on your mark, get set, go!

 

Breathing:

 

First, a quick trip to Biology 101. On a very basic level, breathing is our body’s way of getting nourishment. As we inhale (or inspire), we are bringing oxygen to our body and all of its systems. As we exhale we are carrying away waste in the form of carbon dioxide. The word “inspiration” has an interesting double meaning. In addition to “breathing in”, inspiration also indicates, according to Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, “the action or power of moving the intellect or emotions”. Hmmm, sounds vaguely like what we try to do as writers – move our readers’ intellect and emotions – don’t you think? Here’s another fascintating tidbit. The word “inspire” comes from the Latin root “spiritus”meaning not only breath but soul. So, it seems breathing is important on many different levels (physical, mental and spiritual). Throw in its positive stress-reducing benefits, and we’ve also got an emotional component. Pretty powerful stuff!

 

But enough waxing philosophical. How can breathing help us build a strong physical foundation for our writing marathon? The oxygen we bring in during breathing feeds the muscles of those crazily typing fingers (they are crazily typing, right? :0)  ). It also brings much needed fuel in the form of oxygen to that most important organ, our brain. Our brain makes up only 2% of our body weight yet requires 25% of the oxygen we breathe in. That’s one hard working organ! Feed it right with good breathing.

 

Most likely, we’ve all heard of deep breathing or diaphragmatic breathing. Well, that’s a good place to start. Tune into your breath right now…

 

When you inhale, where does your breath stop? Your neck? Your chest? Your abdomen? In order to bring in all of the oxygen you need and clear out all of that nasty carbon dioxide, you want to breathe into your abdomen. Try it a couple times. Really feel your ribs expand, stick out your belly, stretch your shoulders up and back. Feel any different? More relaxed? Maybe more awake? More focused? Take the next couple days to periodically check in with your breathing. Strive for an inspiration that goes clear to your abdomen, an inspiration that clears and feeds your brain for writing, writing, writing.

 

If you feel like you have a good grasp on diaphragmatic breathing, there are other breathing exercises that specifically target increased awareness or improved creativity.

 

Scientific studies have shown that single nostril breathing corresponds to increased activity of the associated brain hemisphere. So, to give your creativty a kick, gently close your right nostril and breathe in through your left nostril (which is associated with your right brain, the typically more creative side). After you inhale, release your right nostril and exhale through both. Repeat the cycle several times and notice any differences.

 

A quick note: if you feel overly light-headed while working with these exercises, stop. It’s like training for a running marathon, you have to build up your strength and endurance.

 

Here are some resources if you’d like to learn more:

 

WRITING BEGINS WITH THE BREATH by Laraine Herring

8 WEEKS TO OPTIMUM HEALTH by Andrew Weil

BREATHE IN, BREATHE OUT by Jeffrey A. Migdow & James E. Loehr

 

I’d love to hear your favorite creativity kicking techniques (breathing or otherwise) or more about your experiences with the ones mentioned above.

 

My next post (April 20th) will be the letter “R”…What does it stand for? I’m going to leave you in suspense…Mwahahaha!

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Controlling C.H.A.O.S

Monday, March 9th, 2009

I’ve found a way to control C.H.A.O.S.!

And it’s called “flying”, created by a cute little lady with wings, a tutu and a flyfishing rod…she is The Flylady.

In Flylady’s world C.H.A.O.S. is “Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome”. In my world C.H.A.O.S. is “Help, I’m Buried Beneath My To-Do’s and I Can’t Get Out” ( H.I.B.B.M.T.a.I.C.G.O. ) And people wonder why I’m confused?!

Flylady has helped me in so many ways. She (along with Kris Kennedy – see her MamaWriters post ) showed me the value of small snippets of time. Flylady helped me let go of perfection (as much as is possible for a pedigreed perfectionist) and she helped me corral my to-do’s so that I actually have a sense of accomplishment at the end of the day. She helped me get on top of my housework and general organization so that I have time to do the things I want (like writing and reading and, of course, spending time with my family).

Check out her website at www.flylady.net.

“Flybabies” are encouraged to start controlling CHAOS by getting dressed to their shoes at the beginning of each day and “shining their sinks” before bed. And that’s how I started. It took me a few months to get those two habits established. Hey, I’m used to working in my PJ’s! But I noticed a difference.

After that I started establishing daily routines and continued to follow Flylady’s “babysteps“ approach. I felt like I was getting more done in less time, and I had moments for fun. When I crawled into bed at night I actually felt like I’d gotten something done instead of feeling like I just spent the day spinning my wheels!

I continued adding habits and created more routines and a “control journal“. I also started spending fifteen minutes a day decluttering one area of my house. Several months after I started working with Flylady’s system the holidays rolled around. Supposedly a time of peace and happiness, it was anything but at our house (sound familiar?)…there were children’s concerts, parties, last minute shopping, wrapping, cooking and cleaning – and by “cleaning” I mean shoving armloads of crap under the beds, in the closets, in the washer and dryer and, one year, even in the car we wouldn’t (hopefully) be using. I put on my best battle face and set to work. Company would be arriving in five days along with Santa Clause. To my utter and mouth-gaping amazement, there was no crap to be stuffed under the beds, in the closets or the car. The house was decluttered and the bathrooms were clean. The shopping wasn’t done but I had a list of ideas broken down by gift recipient and a holiday shopping budget (per Flylady’s directions). The most miraculous thing happend that year…we had fun. We laughed. We experienced the joy of the season! I thank Flylady for it…

By following her suggestions, developing routines, clearing clutter and creating a central control system, I conquered C.H.A.O.S. (H.I.B.B.M.T.a.I.C.G.O.).

Is life perfect? Of course not. And my system requires frequent tweaking as my roles change, my kids’ activities and needs evolve and our lives just move with the times. But I’m calmer, our house is a home (not a dumping ground polluted with crankiness) and we even occasionally have a sit-down family meal. I have time to write.

I credit Flylady with getting me started. As with all things in life, not everything she suggests works for me, but it gave me a springboard, and hope…hope that I could manage my myriad of roles, responsiblities, needs and desires.

Two of my favorite Flylady thoughts:

* Nothing is perfect. Why waste time doing something perfectly when it will have to be done again in a few days?! Just do it and get on with life…then do it again and get on with life…

* Nothing says I love you like toilet paper

 Intrigued? Check out www.flylady.net or get started here. Let me know what you think. I’d love to hear about things that have worked for you in trying to control C.H.A.O.S. or H.I.B.B.M.T.a.I.C.G.O.!

Have a wonderful Monday!

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