Howdy-Do, Mama Writers!! Hope your Friday is treating you right!
As many of you know, I’ve been gnawing away at my MS for quiet some time now. I had a goal to enter the Golden Heart last year, but watched that timeline disappear faster than a box of Little Debbie Peanut Butter Bars. Yep, I let real life and distractions like, um, other writers’ books snag my attention.
I don’t think I’m the only person to fall victim to such trappings as laundry, shuttling kids, meal planning, bills, Sookie Stackhouse books and TrueBlood! Real life happens and sometimes it knocks us with an ole one-two to the kisser. Hey, that’s life and it ain’t ever going to get easier. So, if life is the variable in the equation, that means I get to determine the constant. In this case, my constant is determination.
Behind every successful person is a moment where the rubber met the road, so to speak, and they got gazelle intense about achieving their dreams. Mine came last week. I received an email from an author friend of mine stating that her editor was not only critiquing pitches, but taking them! All I had to do was click over to the blog and pitch my opus in the comments sections. Holy $#@*, right?! A dream come true!
Yeah, here is where my “DOH! DOH! Moment!” came to pass. I didn’t have a pitch ready, because I had nothing to pitch! A half-written book is just that– a half-written book! So, I lost an opportunity because I hadn’t stepped up to the plate and put the time in swinging away. Awful baseball analogy, but you get the gist.
So, what’s a gal to do after she’s drowned her self-pity in Diet Coke and left over birthday cake from her 3 yr old’s party? I got frickin’ gazelle intense, that’s what!
No more putting my writing time on the back burner because something else comes up. I will make writing a priority. Life will always be there to throw lemons at you. It’s up to you to dodge the little buggers. I vote for making lemon custard filled pastries and pressing onward! *wink wink*
So, I’ve ramped up my battery and dived back into the program. No more Scarlet O’Hara or Snow White syndrome! Tomorrow ain’t always a given and waiting for Prince Charming to come to you isn’t nearly as fun as chasing him. All I need is 700 words a day, five days a week, and I’m on track to meeting my goal of entering a complete and polished MS in the Golden Heart this fall. That’s right. I’ll finally have written The End and after having a huge celebration for that milestone, I’ll be bellied-up to my key-board gazelle intense once again on finishing another one.
It’s not always easy admitting when you’ve taken detours, well, actually if you let me drive inevitably you’ll be taking detours because I have NO sense of direction or ability to parallel park, so I guess the moral of this story is STAY THE COURSE AND FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS and not me on a road trip!
But on the flipside, make sure you’re not so rigid you can’t roll with the punches. Don’t worry, we’ll get there together! Here’s my theme song of late, hope it sets your gears to motion, too! Darryl Worley’s Sounds Like Life To Me!
C’mon, fess up! I know I ain’t the only one! What goals are you chasing and how do you stay the course?
Have an awesome weekend Mama Writers! Get your three days of R&R started right! Head on over to my blog, The Lovestruck Novice, and scope out ANNA CAMPBELL’s guest blog! She’s talking all about secret identies and has offered up a free copy of her new release, MY RECKLESS SURRENDER, to one lucky commenter! Hope to see you there!



Twitter: efloraross
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OMG can I relate to this! It is SO hard to make time for writing. I consider myself lucky if I can devote one hour a day. The thing is, writing can’t be my priority right now. My 16 month-old daughter has to be. I understand that, and I’m fine with it (most of the time). It just sucks that I rediscovered my passion for writing at a time in my life when I can’t devote myself to it. She won’t be little forever, and I know I will miss this days. So I am enjoying them. But once she starts school, man are my fingers going to pound on this keyboard!!!
I too can relate. I was so good last year with my writing schedule. My youngest was in AM preschool so I took an hour 3 days a week to write (away from home, of course). 3K a week was my goal and I exceeded it every week for the first half of the year. Then summer came and I wrote almost nothing. I reached my goal of entering GH and finishing a different WIP by the end of the year.
This year, though, the progress has been slow. I’ve been querying like crazy and doing some freelance editing, which good. Work=money. But it has taken away from my writing time. I wanted to have my next WIP done by now, but I’m only halfway through. I’ll put it on the back burner until the fall because I have a different MS that needs a big revision. I think the revision will be easier with the kids around all summer. Or at least I hope so
Keep it up Sarah! I have faith that you’ll finish your WIP. It’s all about making it a priority. Think of it as your job, and setting those goals will really help! Good luck!
You’re not the only one. I have one novella and two different novel ideas started. And they are just started. My goal is to finish something. Maybe the novella and one of the novels this year. I need to get cracking. You can’t sell what you don’t have.
Twitter: KrisKennedy
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Hey Sarah~
Oh, it can be so HARD, can’t it? but I’ve found just what you have: complaining about it, or not liking it, doesn’t make it go away. LOL
The upside is the sense of accomplishment and confidence that comes when you DO do the difficult things, climb the big mountain. Easier to walk over little hills, but nowhere near as satisfying or life-altering in the end.
You can do it!! Go, sister!
HI Mamas!!!
Whew! Today was the last day of my girl’s pre-k. 3 hours of relay races and games. I don’t know who is more tired me or her! lol
Hi Elizabeth! Thanks for commenting! I started writing when my daughter was 2.5yrs and my son had just turned one. It’s crazy time for sure!
I just started chugging away during naptime. Sheesh! When it got hard was last year when my oldest stopped wanting to take naps. Hang in there and don’t give up! I know you’ll find a way to keep chasing your dream. Best wishes for a happy summer with your little one! 16m is such a fun age. Still like a baby, but not quite as bossy as a toddler. lol Too fun!
Congrats on reaching your GH goal, Shannyn!! I think that’s awesome! Your 3k/wk goal sounds very doable and is one I might keep in mind once I finish this MS. That’s what I love about talking with other writers. You just never know what you’re going to learn and I do so love to learn new tricks of the trade. I hope you find your niche window of time to get things done. I’ll be challenged once my son’s summer speech therapy class starts. It’s a month of driving 45m away, four days a week for an hour long session. That’s why I really have knuckle down and stick to a plan. LOL I guess I’m going to discover my true grit, huh?! Best wishes for a productive summer!
Heya Eliza!!
Thanks for the support! I really do appreciate your vote of confidence! I’m so glad I’ve got the chance to hang out with such awesome and inspiring ladies these last few months. It’s really made all the difference! I will definitely take your advice. I’ve got my fingers crossed for good things to come your way! You, my friend, are a star! ((hugs!))
Hi Beth!
I hope you finish your projects. I’ll be sending good thoughts your way, too! I just got sick and tired of feeling sick and tired with myself! Missing that opportunity last week was a real smack upside the noggin, you know. No one is going to do it for me. This is something I have to set my scpoe on and pull the trigger. I’m definitely learning a lot about myself, my capabilities, and my flaws during this journey. Here’s hoping we both achieve our goals this year! *cyber-high-five!*
Aw, thanks, Kris! You’re such a great motivator!
It’s like when I’m faced with doing laundry. I know I have to do it, because there isn’t such a thing as laundry fairy, no matter what my hubby believes! LOL It’s just better to pull oneself up by the bootstraps and set to work. I’m definitely going to throw a bash when I write “The End”! I can’t wait to experience that huge rush of achievement! It’s gonna be awesome!
Thanks again for all your kind words of encouragement!((hugs!))
Congrats on the new determination
You already know about my up and down days thanks to my Facebook status updates.
We all struggle–no matter if we have kids or not
Like today, because the hubby was home, I wrote 2 words. Yup, just 2. Sigh. I’ll try better tomorrow.
Twitter: violaestrella
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Hi Sarah!
Love your attitude. Good luck getting to The End. I can’t wait to see you finaling in the next GH!