A special treat to MamaWriters today – Silver James – who many of us know and love. Please, read and comment, as Silver is offering a lucky winner with a free book! Thanks, and take it away, Silver!
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There is one, you know, for all of you with little ones clamoring around the house. There comes a time when there are no more grubby little hands mauling just-printed pages meant for submissions. There is life after nap times and play dates. Writing time is more plentiful once sporting events, driving lessons, and shopping for prom dresses are no more. I know this because my “little one” isn’t any more. She’s a young woman, pursuing her dreams of an advanced degree in Museum Studies. She’s also planning her wedding for next year. Will it be romantic? Of course! But not because I’m planning it. I’m just the checkbook. <wink> Just because I write romances and guarantee my characters their Happy Ever After doesn’t mean she believes I’m a wedding planner. Trust me, I’m not!
Even though The Only…yes, that’s what we call her, and it’s usually meant to be a compliment. “D’huh?” you ask. Depending on the events of the day, there are two schools of explanation on why we only had one child. On a good day, I’ve been known to tell people with pride, “When you get perfection the first time out, you quit while you’re ahead.” Then there are the days the answer was far different. “Yes, we only have one…Why?…Have you ever talked to a family with a passel of kids and they invariably say of the last one, had this one been born first, s/he would be an only child? Well, she’s an only child!” FYI, I’m a firm believer in giving The Only something to talk about when she goes into therapy. It’s in the parental contract. As a mom, my duty is to drive my daughter nuts. Just sayin’! (Don’t even get me started on the things her father pulled when she was young. Can you say gullible?) Despite my best efforts, she’s grown into a lovely young woman, full of confidence, abilities, and compassion. Though we gave her a hard time, she still covered for me. I remember an incident from grade school when she had friends over to play. My characters weren’t cooperating at all and I was berating them rather soundly. Out loud.
“Uhm…who’s your mom talking to?” one friend asked.
The Only rolled her eyes. “The people who live in her head.” I stopped writing, listening to the nervous titters echoing in the next room. “It’s okay, though. She’s not crazy. Those are the characters in her book. Dad and I don’t panic unless they talk back.”
For some strange reason, those girls never came back to our house to play….hrmmmm…
Now that I’m published and my debut novel, FAERIE FATE, is out, The Only is one of my biggest supporters and PR people. She’s handed out postcards all over her college campus, lining up friends and professors who want to read (and buy!) my book. I remember a time when she ignored the “icky” parts of my manuscripts. Then I introduced her to Sherrilyn Kenyon’s Darkhunters. All the sudden, my TBR shelf was empty. Barren. Bereft. Every book I wanted to read had suddenly disappeared into the Black Hole (aka her room). I’m STILL finding some of those paperbacks in there all these years later. Why is it she’ll read the sexy bits written by someone else but not me? She just blushes, ahems, and changes the subject. I guess it all goes back to that whole “My parents don’t do that!” syndrome. I had that particular blinder on where my parents were concerned, too. Isn’t it funny that in our role as parent or child, we never want to contemplate the sexuality of the other? As The Only would say, “Ewwwwww!”
Oh dear! I veered a bit off topic there. Sorry ’bout that. Suffice it to say the little ones eventually grow up, you will have “that” conversation with them, despite the “ewww’s” on both sides, and then life returns to normal. And so does writing. Time becomes your own once again. The house no longer echoes with joyous or angry shouts—see there is an advantage to only one child: no sibling rivalry (unless you count the dogs
). The light at the end of the tunnel comes when you let your child go, knowing s/he’s ready to take on the world. Enjoy them while they’re small, but look forward to them when they make it to adulthood. I’ve discovered The Only is pretty darn cool. And a heckava PR agent.
If you could go back, do it over again, would you take a chance to find true love? What if you had no choice?
On her fiftieth birthday, the faerie catapult Rebecca Miller a thousand years into the past to find her happily ever after with Ciaran MacDermot, Chief of Clann MacDermot and the last Fenian warrior in his line. In the twenty-first century, Becca is old enough to be Ciaran’s mother. In the tenth, she’s young enough to be his bride.
The fae forgot to mention one slight stipulation. The lovers must be bound before the Festival of Light, or Becca will forever disappear into Tir Nan Óg, the faerie Land of the Ever Young. Will they discover the binding words before time runs out and they’re torn apart forever? Or will their eternal love defeat their Faerie Fate?
Without the words, history is doomed to repeat itself.
The little clock she’d received as a present on her twenty-fifth birthday whirred and chimed the time. One small, tinkling chime. Two. Finally, twelve in all. Midnight between March twentieth and March twenty-first. The vernal equinox. The day when light and dark, good and evil, love and hate all balanced on the finely tuned axis of mother earth.
Voices, strange with lilting accents, whispered somewhere in the darkness of Becca’s dream.
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“She sleeps,” said a soft voice, feminine, one Becca didn’t recognize.
“Aye.” The second voice was deep, male, arrogant.
“Will she remember?”
“Nay, she’ll not.”
“How then will she know what to do?”
“She’ll know.” He sounded confident.
“What of him?”
“Aye, he’ll definitely know now. He should have known the last time, but she was too afraid, and he was too full of himself.”
“What is so different this time?” She was skeptical.
“She was young then, not matched well to him. Now, she’s no young soul. She’s had all those lives without him, the lonely nights, and the ache in her heart for all time. This time, she has courage born in the fires of suffering. She’ll know not to run from him, but to him.”
“You’re sure with the knowing of it this time?”
“Aye.”
“And, if it doesn’t work?”
“Ciaran dies. Again.”
A sharp intake of breath came from the woman. “That cannot happen. Too much went wrong the first time.”
FAERIE FATE, available in print and ebook from THE WILD ROSE PRESS, Amazon, and Barnes and Noble.
I want to thank Ashley and all the Mama Writers for having me here today. Inquiring minds (mine!) want to know if your kids have ever explained your writing to a friend, and what they said. Or if you have a question, just ask! One random commenter will receive their choice of the print or ebook edition of FAERIE FATE.
BIO: My imagination has always run rampant. As a published author, I get to share the stories created there in the vast cosmic void of my brain. Over the course of my lifetime, I’ve been a mother, military officer’s wife, state appellate court marshal, airport rescue firefighter and forensic fire photographer, crime analyst, and technical crime scene investigator. Retired from the “real world” now, I live in Oklahoma and spend my days at the computer with my two Newfoundland dogs, the “lolcat” who rules us all, and myriad characters all clamoring for attention. Eventually, I’ll tell each of their stories.
For more information visit me at www.silverjames.com






Hey, Silver – followed you over from your website (where the men are getting out of hand and the food is delicious). Congrats again on FAERIE FATE – I’m so excited for you.
And this was a nice introduction to The Only. You’ve mentioned her many times, but I don’t think I’ve read anything in-depth about her. She sounds like a wonderful woman – and I think you’d be an awesome mom!
Since I don’t have children, I can’t comment on writing and raising a family. I can tell you that The Husband just ignores my outbursts, my staring off into space, and my scramble for a piece of paper when an idea has sprung. It’s important to have that support in this career – or you just might end up crazy insane vs regular insane.
And I bow down to those women who write and raise a family – that dedication and time management is amazing.
(Don’t enter me in the draw since I have a copy of FAERIE FATE) on its way)
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Hi, Janet! nice to see you! Don’t bow too low! you’ll see all the dust bunnies and clutter filled closets! hee hee. Glad to have you here, at Mamawriters. Thanks for supporting Silver!
~Ashley
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Now, Janet, you were supposed to handle those guys until I could get back! LOL And I will enter you! I’ll just substitute some other FAERIE FATE goody if you win.
Great post, Silver. Congratulations on the debut!
I have an only, too. She’s never had to explain my writing to her friends, but she’s pretty good at rolling her eyes when I’m talking to my characters. She’s become my first reader, and a pretty good one at that. I don’t know what I’ll do when she goes off to college in a couple years. (Ack, I mean next year… 2011… It’s all too soon. :shudder:)
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B.E. – my oldest now helps me plot. She listens as I spin story ideas, asks questions, and even comes up with some good ideas of her own!
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Thanks, B.E.! They grow up so fast, don’t they?!?! I wasn’t ready to shoo The Only out the door either. (And then she came back home! Right when I’d gotten used to the empty nest! LOL)
I love when the kids become “people.” I’m always amazed she’s my kid. How did she turn out made of such awesome? I’m positive it was nothing I did!
Tag, you’re it.
The men are behaving, I am keeping an eye on them. And a hand. Or two. We might run out of bubbly tho.
I don’t write but I craft. And do “things” around the house. Which hubby knows means money will be involved at some point. And probably a lot of it. But since we are officially empty nesters now, it’s our business.
My “only”, but his last, is 3000 miles away. Sometimes I don’t think she thinks she is far enough away. I visited last week- and we spent an entire morning at Ikea, with me getting ideas, taking pics and her writing down info.
I shanghi her friends into coming and helping do heavy work, even with her all the way on the other coast. So they are used to me and my crazy ideas.
See, you just need to enlist them all, and bring them over to your dark side.
Of course, mine doesn’t include any possibility of anyone having to deal with the “icky” parts.
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oooooh! Ikea! say it and I swoon… just telling my hubby we need some new stuff for the playroom which is evolving into the “craft room & media center.” He thinks I’m nuts.
Just the words “empty nest” make my heart clutch. Grabbing my 6 & 4 year old munchkins a bit tighter today. Thanks for stopping by, Ev!
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Ev, you know you’d be lost without her! I remember your drive last year to take her car to her. Yeah…I saw some sniffles. A little Snoopy dancing, too, but…
She’s spreading her wings and as Mama’s, that’s what we both hope for a dread. Writing a book, or creating something, is much the same feeling. You create it, nurture it, and then “release it into the wild,” heart in throat and hope you did it right. You did, my friend. Be proud!
And The Only brought heavy lifting assistance home with her. LOL
I love being an empty nester- no one to worry about but hubby, the animals and my next door neighbor!! I do miss her, but she is threatening to move home after graduation if she doesn’t find a job- and I can’t have that!!! LOL
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Silver, GREAT to see you here!
FAERIE FATE looks fantastic. Can’t wait to get my hands on a copy.
My 2nd would answer the reason for having an only. Come to think of that, so would my 1st.
You give me pause, and are my constant reminder to enjoy the now, and not be so focused on what’s next… thanks, sweetie and I love that you and your daughter are such wonderful friends.
My mom is still my best friend, and at the moment, she’s MY best PR agent. Looking forward to having the girls join in, in that regard!
Take care, and look forward to spending the day with you!
~Ash
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Thanks for having me here today, Ashley! I love visiting the MamaWriters to remember what my life used to be like. Trust me, enjoy them now. Watching the world unfurl through The Only’s eyes helped me become a better writer!
Hey Silver, I made it. CONGRATULATIONS AND HAPPY RELEASE DAY!! Sorry, was I yelling? The music was so loud in the Shadows…I think I might have gone deaf.
Thanks for the intro re The Only. I can completely understand the “Ewww Factor.” You know, I never got the Talk from my mom…everything I learned, I learned from books first. Hmmm…food for thought there.
Sorry for the tangent. I am really excited and I am loving FF. I am so happy to be hanging out and celebrating with you. Gotta go…Adrian and Gilles are unprotected, and I would hate for someone to snatch them right from under me…ahem, my nose…LOL!!! (*whispering: like I did to them…LOL!!!*
Have a blast Silver. Thank you Mamawriters for celebrating with my buddy here. Love the look of your blog. Happy writing.
Peace and love,
Paula R.
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Thanks for following me around, Paula. (Notice I didn’t mention the “stalk” word. *bwahaha*) I’m glad you are enjoying the parties! I hope you are enjoying the book, now that it’s in your hot, little hands.
Oh, that’s funny about the girls because a similar thing happened to me. This was back when I was in the military and a shiftworker. I spent a lot of time working by myself and talking to myself. One of my co-workers said I wasn’t crazy unless I started answering myself and I responded with, ‘Oh, but that’s when it gets interesting’. LOL
Congrats on Faerie Fate, Silver. I’ll be rooting for your others, too.
Yay!
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Anita, some of my most enlightening conversations are the ones I have with myself! I’m so glad I’m not the only one! LOL Thanks for dropping by. I’ll see you soon back on the Prairies, and this July at RWA Nationals! Looking forward to it.
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And…drum roll, please! The winner of a copy of FAERIE FATE is Anita Mae Draper! Anita, I’ll be in touch directly to get your information. Thanks for visiting!