I admit, albeit reluctantly, that I am one of those people who both freak and thrive on the deadline.
It’s funny because I always studied ahead of time in school, never left anything to the last minute etc so I can only assume this absurdity must have began with motherhood.
I guess it’s a by-product of prioratizing and procrastination–oh, now doesn’t that make sense, just another puddle of pp to a mother LOL.
Still, when the crunch time comes, I might get a little rangy, a little excitable, and even a little short-tempered sometimes, but my family now simply rolls their eyes and shakes their heads in that tell-tale sigh of acceptance–>Mom’s a loon but we love her anyway.
And now, as the children are getting older, they know no different, this is nothing new to them and is, pretty much, routine. Which sure helps those times when the crunch is on and supper ends up being a tuna sandwich instead of a roast or the light downstairs is on earlier in the morning than they are allowed to wake up LOL.
One other thing I like about crunch time–I don’t feel guilty taking time for me–as in the enjoyment of me time just to write.
And, as mothers and writers, we all know how rare that can be!



Twitter: KrisKennedy
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Stacy~
It’s a really good point, about the crunch of deadline does erase some of the ‘guilt’–or, even if it’s not straight-up guilt, it the sense that you COULD be doing something else at that very moment, something that would benefit someone else or make someone else happier than whatever you’re currently doing.
What is so hard for me is the constant stopping. Barely getting started on a task, be it writing or cleaning dishes, and being called away/needed/requested elsewhere. Even if you don’t go, it’s still a mental & emotional distraction. When it happens 40-200 times/day, every day, it’s a bit draining.
Good luck on your deadline!
Oh, Stacy, your post really hits home!!
I hate, hate, HATE deadlines. But without them? I’d never get anything done. Seriously. I am the Queen of Procrastination.
So, no matter how much we hate them, thank goodness for deadlines!
~ Melissa
Hi Stacy!
If Melissa is the Queen of Procrastination, I’m most certainly the princess. LOL
What’s funny is that right now I don’t have a deadline- save for self-imposed ones. I should be pounding away to finish, but often let other responsibilities get in the way of my progress.
I should be making the most of this time. Thank you for the reminder that it doesn’t get any easier!
I need to get crack-a-lackin!
Good luck getting your work done! I know you can do it!
Boy, can I relate to that Kris. Sometimes it’s hard to get ‘in character’ with all the demands around you constantly.
Thank you ladies. One thing I love about this place is that no matter how weird, odd or annoying, there is always someone (usually all LOL) who knows what we’re going through