Yes, I admit it, I’m a Kris Allen fan. You know, the cutie who won last season’s American Idol. I love the type of music he sings and I adore his latest release “Live Like We’re Dying.” It’s a reminder for all of us to—you guessed it—live life to the fullest because you just never know when you’re going to breathe your last breath.
But what exactly does living life to the fullest entail? And is there one certain way to do it?
Personally, I think it depends on what’s most important to each individual. When I’m lying on my death bed, I honestly won’t care that I never bungee jumped or fell from an airplane. I won’t think twice about the fact that I wasn’t a surgeon or an actress or a gold-medal Olympian. Did I swim the Panama Canal? Who cares? Did I eat Indian cuisine? Meh, doesn’t matter.
Did I tell my family and friends that I love them enough? Wow, now that worries me.
In my writing career, did I push myself out of my comfort zone, or did I lay low and watch important opportunities pass me by? That’s an important question, I think.
As a mom, did I teach my kids right from wrong? Did I hug them enough? Did I show them that they’re special? Did I give them a reason to respect me and the life that I led? These are all questions that are significant to me and they’re definitely ways that I can and/or do live life to the fullest.
So what about you? How do you live your life like you’re dying?
Viola Estrella



I love American Idol!
I try not to let the little things get to me, and focus on bigger things. If opportunity arises for something in both my career world and personal world, I try to go with it.
I used to spend a lot of time thinking if only I’d done this or that, or had the chance for…but I stopped (well mostly… I still do that with situations with my kids) . Life’s to short to worry about what didn’t happen. We have to make the best of the future!
Cheers!
Eliza
Twitter: violaestrella
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Hi Eliza,
I know what you mean. Regret can be paralyzing, can’t it? It’s tough not to second guess yourself in motherhood and in our careers. Don’t I know it! How awesome that you’ve overcome that for the most part.
Twitter: KrisKennedy
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Viola~
, but I love the query, b/c it’s important to slow and and reflect. I’m like you: not an adventure junkie. I don’t need a hundred new experiences: I get tested by going deeper, in relationships, in m skills, my awareness of myself and the world.
Can’t say I’m a fan of Kris Allen,
Great topic!
Twitter: violaestrella
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Hi Kris,
Just like the MamaWriters’ slogan – it’s all about the love, right? Great attitude.
Hi Viola!!
I love your posts. ((hugs!)) I have a confession to make, but let me duck first–lol– I don’t watch American Idol. I know, I know, *gasp*, right? I used to but lost interest when Nashiville Star and Can You Duet came along. I will confess though to a long standing crush on Simon Cowell. He’s HOT!
I try to live each day in a way I will be proud of on the next. I’m a worrier, so I have to remind myself to relax and not choke on things I can’t control. I’d love to be as calm and mello as my hubby. Nothing ruffles his feathers! LOL I just hope my kids learn to appreciate the things they have and remember their manners. I see a lot of kids with a very big sense of entitlement and it makes me scared for the future. ARGH! There goes my worry-wart syndrome. I’m shushing up now!
Way to go on your awards, lady! You rock!
Twitter: violaestrella
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Hi Sarah,
Thanks! I love your posts, too!!! I’m a worrier too. Big time. How can we not when there are SO many things to worry about? LOL Okay, I’m not helping, am I?