MamaWriters are excited to have Carrie Lofty with us today! Author of two medieval romances, her second one, Soundrel’s Kiss, just released from Kensington this month, and she’s talking about the writing of that book, and how, with her young kids newly off to school, the magical appearance of Lots Of Time didn’t appear so magically after all. Hmmm, I was certain that was part of the deal . . .?
Please help us welcome Carrie Lofty!
Many, Many Mochas
Writing SCOUNDREL’S KISS was my first experience of producing fiction under deadline. Until then, I’d worked of my own volition and with self-imposed goals. (Seeing as how my girls were not yet in preschool at the time, that was probably for the best!)
But as I sat down in the fall of 2007 to write SCOUNDREL’S KISS, something miraculous took place: my little darlings went off to school! Preschool and pre-K to be exact, and for only three hours a day, but I thought it the most wondrous three hours any day had ever seen fit to provide.
Imagine that. No interruptions. No other chores. No expectations other than producing new pages each day. Bliss.
Only…it didn’t quite work out that way.
I couldn’t seem to concentrate. I didn’t know what to do with myself. Part of me, after years of staying at home with the girls while my husband finished up his MBA, was in rebellion. I wanted to play around for a while! And to say I lacked discipline is a radical understatement. What I can now do in a day took me the whole work week back then. At such a pitiful rate, I was going to run up against my deadline. Not good!
So I started dropping off the girls and heading straight over to my local coffee shop. Some days I would cheap out and order the $1 house coffee. Other days I would splurge on a mocha. There, I was able to find my groove. All of those uninterrupted, productive three-hour blocks began to materialize as I’d hoped. Chapter after chapter clicked by.
I submitted my manuscript with a month to spare.
Not only did I get past the initial freak out of making my child-free hours productive, I learned how to apply myself toward external deadlines. The skills I’d forgotten since having my daughters came back in force. And it only took an unfathomable number of mochas.
Times have changed since that first fall as a professional writer. My girls are in kindergarten and first grade now, away from home 6+ hours a day. I have time to write, network, promote, do chores, and even sometimes exercise. (Can you tell I’m still thinking along the lines of new year’s resolutions?)
But to do so, I still have to be vigilant, lest I lose whole days to Twitter, “Doctor Who,” and “So You Think You Can Dance.” Most times, I do my writing away from my desktop computer, with its super high speed internet connection and gorgeous widescreen monitor. But luckily for my bank account, I eventually learned to spend working hours in the library!
Visit Carrie and check out excerpts and reviews at http://carrielofty.com/





Welcome Carrie!
Great post!
Before my most recent addition was born, I had one in elementary school and one in preschool. I remember the 1st day they were both gone. I went through the same type of rebellion, lol. I could watch whatever I wanted on television. Go to the store and mosey around. Lounge on the couch with a book. I didn’t want to work, I wanted to play!
I still play hookey every once in awhile, but now when the two older ones are at school, I try to get the baby to nap so I can get some work done.
How’s it going with you in the library? I tried that once, and I couldn’t stop looking at the books. Haven’t tried the coffee shop yet, I do go there to read, maybe I’ll try working.
Cheers!
Eliza
PS. Cure for the coffee shop bank depleting problem… for my b-day and Christmas I always ask for Starbucks gift cards! It gets me through several months at a time, lol
I, too, am in the camp of “Where did all that time go?!” between the hours of drop-off at the bus stop and pick-up at the bus stop. Bus arrives ~8:00 but dog walk + breakfast = not at computer until 8:30. Bus drop off at ~ 3pm is actually leaving the computer to put shoes on and walk down the hill at 2:52. Effective work time sliced from seven hours to 6 hours ish minus lunch. Of the 4.5-5 hours left…I get a solid 3 hours of uninterrupted (most of the time) editing and/or writing. That’s half. Where does the other half go?! E-mail read/respond, yahoogroups list checking, Facebook, SYTYCD, blogs, household errands (faster without the kid…really).
We always set out with the idea of being as efficient with each day as possible…
Twitter: KrisKennedy
says:
Kelly~
I splice my time that closely too! It’s amazing, how easily it can slip away.
Hi Carrie!
I drive all over taking my son to speech therapy and my daughter to pre-k. I never feel like I get ANYTHING done! My house is way messier than I’ve ever let it get. I’ll start the day with a list and by night time be wondering what in the heck happened to all my plans! Doh!
I gave up “Five-Bucks” as my hubs calls it. We make coffee at home. I do miss my Carmel Frappachinos, but love the bling-bling in the bank account. LOL
One day when my kids are both in school full time, I want to have a day to meet other moms and “have coffee.” I think I’d definitely enjoy losing time that way!
Twitter: KrisKennedy
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Sarah~
LOL on Fivebucks (I’m assuming that’s instead of Stabucks.) I really like that!
Sarah, once a month, I leave the kids with my hubby and go to FiveBucks (lol, love that!) with my friend and we chat for a little bit and then read a couple hours! Its fantastic!
Hi everyone,
Thanks to the Mama Writers (especially Kris) for having me here today. Glad to see I’m not the only one! And Eliza, I don’t go *near* the books! I head straight up to a second level arcade that looks down at the stacks. That way I can sit and work in peace. Headphones in, hands on Alphasmart keyborad…work! Unless, of course, I see something interesting out the window…
Procrastination will find a way. Luckily I’m just better at ignoring it these days
All the best,
Carrie