Calling all mamas! I’m looking to take a poll and could really use your input. I’m sitting here thinking about the latest dilemma/threat facing our children, only this one not only affects the kids. This threat isn’t discriminatory based on age, or gender, or race. It hits anyone susceptible, and it hits hard.
I’m talking about the flu.
No, not the H1N1 (swine) flu, not specifically. I’m talking about the flu in general, and how many millions of different strands there are out there. The flu is mutating faster than the scientists can create vaccines for, even the “regular” flu, for lack of a better term.
As a volunteer in a high-risk organization (Search and Rescue), I receive my flu shot for free, should I choose to get one. I’ve never had a flu shot and have only caught the flu maybe twice my entire adult life. That has me pondering what that flu shot is really doing.
Here’s the facts: the flu shot is a dead flu virus injected into your body. White blood cells attack the foreign substance and, although you may feel some mild symptoms of the flu as your body fights it off, your body will build an immunity to the specific strand injected into you. With the flu nose spray, you are inhaling a dormant, yet still alive version of the flu string, but works on the same principle. Put something foreign in your body and it will fight it off. They hope.
The whole point of injecting the flu into you is so you won’t catch the flu if you’re exposed to it. What happens if you’re exposed to the infinity of other strands out there and not the single strand you were injected with? Was that shot really worth it, getting the flu (even a mild case) just to build an immunity to a strand you didn’t even get exposed to?
That leads me to today’s topic. How far will we go to protect our kids from these ever-mutating viruses? Would you inject your child with a dead virus to build up their immune system? What about a live virus? What about tossing them in a room full of sick people and seeing if they come out with anything?
Montana is one of the two states in the lower forty-eight that doesn’t have a pandemic on their hands with the latest, greatest, flu virus (as of October 9th). It is also one of the states with the lowest count of the vaccine available to them. Coincidence? Hmm… Maybe the reason we don’t have widespread flu is that we don’t run out and get a flu shot every year. Maybe we’ve just been lucky.
I don’t know the answer. I’m not a doctor and don’t play one on TV. I’m just a parent who has her kids look up to her (except the 17-year-old boy, who is six foot three and I have to crane my neck to look at him) with trust, knowing I’ll do nothing to ever hurt them. I can’t say the flu shot doesn’t have lasting side effects. The FDA is getting way to “approval” happy with its meds. How do I know the flu shot today won’t make my daughter sterile in the future? If you don’t believe me, look at Yaz. That birth control wasn’t even on the market a year and they found serious side effects they didn’t find in the trial studies.
Okay, so I’m going to extremes here. I admit there. But I still ask myself, how far will we go?




Twitter: wiremamma
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Allie – okay – flu is scary. My parents are doctors, and sister’s a paramedic/firefighter… (I didn’t get the science gene, apparently…) and I’ve been trying to decide what to do about the flu vaccines, for us and the kids.
Our family doctor doesn’t buy into it for healthy adults. His take is, pump up your vitamin D intake for the next 7 months and wash your hands. A lot.
For the kids, their doctor ABSOLUTELY recommends the flu shot. H1N1, they asked us to discuss it on a case by case basis when we come in for the flu shot. I’m not doing the in the nose one for them, because frankly it looks horrifying on the news.
But, it makes me think of a picture on my dad’s wall in his office–of a doctor, leaning against a wall, hand to head. In the bed, someone is obviously on death’s door. The doctor is praying. It’s all he can do. Very moving image…and what would a parent of a child with polio in the 1900s do for the sake ofq their children?
ANYWAY. It’s a personal decision for every family, and just like you to push the envelope and get us thinking. Thanks for your post today…
~Ash
Hey Ash!
I’ve heard about the Vitamin D thing. Also Vitamin C. I run after all the kids (I’m like the neighborhood mom) and lecture them all on washing their hands. I carry hand sanitizer around with me and always squirt it on the kids.
I’m there with you. It is a personal decision for every family, and our doc said that my kids didn’t need the shot (maybe since they are 13 and 17), and neither did I. Since none of us has ever had it, I’m not going to start now.
Down the road, when the vaccine has been tested and the LONG TERM results are out, I’ll vaccinate the grand babies. Gawd, I can’t believe I even said that!
~Allie
Twitter: wiremamma
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OMG – and we’re the same age!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So there’s a 10 yr diff between our kiddos… hard to imagine I COULD have teenagers right now. thank heaven’s they’re not born that age!
As a side note, my college room mate’s family had a run with H1N1 – all very sick with very high fevers… did NOT sound like a picnic.
Please understand when I have a bottle of Purell hand sanitizer on my book signing table, along with my breath mints… ! ha ha.
~Ash
My kids are healthy but we live in a community where most families have one person traveling abroad regularly and bringing in interesting viruses. To be on the safe side, I have my kids vaccinated every year.
It won’t protect against everything, but it will help. The flu vaccine, in my mind, doesn’t get classed in with the random drugs like Yaz or the vaccine for herpes. It’s a set formula they use every year. The only change is which virus they put into the vaccine.
Sometimes my girls get low grade fevers from the vaccines, but usually they have no side effects. And I’d rather the low grade fever than an emergency run in the middle of the night.
Very good point, Liana!
Thanks for your comment!
Twitter: violaestrella
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Hi Allie,
Interesting post! I would get the flu shot for my son who has asthma because whatever hits him hits him 10 times harder than most people. He’s had it before and it seems to keep him healthy. But we don’t even have the option at this time where we are. We went to his doc yesterday and she told us they don’t have it in yet but to get it where ever we could find it. So I’ll be on the lookout.
Yes, that is something my doc told me–those at risk of catching the flu should get the shot. Neither of my kids fall under the “at risk” category, and although I work for SAR and am considered “at risk”, I’m on sabbatical this year as I work concessions at all the high school games to raise enough money to send my son to DC this April.
I appreciate your comment!
Great debate ladies! My husband and I are having a similar discussion at the moment. As parents of a newborn, it is strongly recommended we get the shot. However, neither hubby or I have had the flu in our adult lives…and in hubby’s case…never. Add to that and the fact that vaccines and I don’t get along…I’m probably one of those people who would actually get the flu from the shot…and I have to wonder if it’s worth it. If I get the flu from the shot then aren’t I exposing my baby to it and what about the whole breastfeeding thing? Sounds risky to me.
Great points, Emma!
Thanks for commenting!
Allie, the flu is scary and the H1N1 (swine) flu is even scarier. I have never given my kids or myself the flu shot and never will. And my children are healthy.
Here in Mexico the government is very proactive towards health issues. They employ nurses to set up stations in popular areas (walmart, Sams, etc…) to dish those shots out like they are candy. When I refuse to let these people near my family they do not understand why.
I am of the faith ‘if it isn’t broken why try to fix it’. I give my children vitamins, clean food, and plenty of liquids. I see that as my responsibility. My family depends on me to keep them healthy. And not giving them the flu shot is one step in that direction in my opinion.
Loved reading all the posts, great debate mamas!
~Talina
This is an interesting debate. We have been battling what we’ve been told is H1N1 over at our home for the past 2 weeks (3 kids have had it. One more hopefully won’t get it). While it’s a nasty flu, I don’t see that it’s much different than the regular flu, and the one time I got the flu shot, I came down with the flu. So, with that said, it’s my opinion (for what it’s worth) that if you’re an otherwise healthy individual, why get the shot? Keep washing those hands, cover the coughs, and PRAY.
I wrote a post about this on my blog a few weeks back, and NO ONE who commented was getting the shot. I tend to be anti-medicine OVERALL, partially because the meds I’m on (blood thinners) require me to be cautious about everything. THEN I found more articles that this strain is far more dangerous to children than the regular flu.
I don’t know what to believe anymore! Stupidly, I did not bookmark that last article. I think there’s no easy answers here.
Hi Allie!
I love your posts! You always bring it!
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My family always washes our hands like crazy! I carry a little pump bottle filled with rubbing alcohol and water to spray tables, carts, and chairs. I’m a huge fan of Wet Ones and Purell, too. I guess you can’t take the microbiologist out of me!! LOL Working in lab just ruins ya, I guess! (word to the wise- DON”T TOUCH HAND RAILS!! Huge bacteria catchers! I swabbed one in college and couldn’t count the colonies there were so many! lol)
What’s funny is, I carried my little bottle and purell around with me before it was “chic” and would get weird looks! NOW, people ask if they can use some.
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I know all my steps aren’t infallible, but neither are vaccines. What’s that they say about an ounce of prevention? Like you said, Allie, we get vaccines hoping our bodies will remember the virulent virus DNA and attack it.
I’ll be giving my kids their flu shots, but I haven’t decided on the H1N1. I get nervous with new drugs. Rushed science is never good, in my opinion. And on the flipside, we also have to consider, there isn’t much for the news to report on these days and that never bodes well, either. They get very sensational in quiet times. LOL Remember the summer of the shark back in 2001? Sharks kill xyz amount of people every year, just like the regular flu. But that didn’t stop the media from blowing it way out of proportion.
Awesome post, Allie! And KUDOS on all your wonderful work to help your community!
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Twitter: jeannieruesch
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I agree, I’m still a little uncertain about the H1N1 shot…it’s been pushed through so fast, and I worry about what that means.
As an adult, I’ve never received a flu shot and I rarely get sick. But children are different…and I think every parent has to make that decision themselves. What they feel is in the best interest of their children.