So, it’s here.
August 17, 2009. DD #1′s First day of school.
My baby went to kindergarten this morning, and my hubby and I watched her go.
(Okay, in truth? I’m writing this post early. So, I’m only guessing how this is going to feel). I think I’ll cry. I’m guessing that, because I ALWAYS cry. At commercials. At the sight of new born babies. At movies. Listening to country music. You name it, if there’s a hint of choke-up-factor, I’m crying.)
At any rate, last time we talked about getting ready for Kindergarten, and today–here we are.
I don’t remember much about kindergarten. A few scattered memories of playing Wonder Woman and Steve Trevor with my boy-friends in the playground.
First grade? New school. Didn’t know a soul. I have a vague memory of sobbing, because I had to leave my mom! She told me she’d go to jail if I didn’t go inside, so, glumly–I did as I was told.
Walking inside the classroom, a little girl noticed my tear-stained face. She asked, “Do you wanna be my best friend?”
I blinked. “Yeah. Do you want to be mine?”
“Sure.”
Her name was Kim… and she’s still an incredible, dear friend to this day. I won’t say HOW many years later. Ha ha.
So tell, me, writer-mamas! What do you remember about your first day of school?
Whether you make me laugh! or make me cry…thanks for spending this day with me!
~Ashley



I don’t remember much about that time in my life. A snippit of napping in a classroom. The teacher smacking my hand when I handed her the sizzors the wrong way. Ohhhh and the best one, being mugged for my lunch money by High School kids while walking to school. Gee, not the warm and fuzzy ones of our children. lol
For my own kids… now 10 and 13… I didn’t cry when they started school. In fact, I celebrated. I love my children but having a few hours away from them daily is healthy for all involved. Just think… grocery shopping with out the nagging… Go back to the gym… Pedicures.
I love school!
Twitter: wiremamma
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Catherine, thanks for stopping by!
Tomorrow is gonna be the tough one. today, we went for a “tissues and tea” — which actually seemed to be more of a parents gripe session about who got what teacher.
I love my DD’s teacher. Very excited for her. Having to restrain myself from signing up for every committee! LOL.
Thanks for stopping over,
Ash
Becareful with the committee sign ups. Remember that PTA’s love help, but your number one is gonna be your kids. Sometime you end up putting on the party and can’t spend time with your own child. I speak from experience.
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Yeah – gotta love the PTA. HOWEVER…
I’m not a joiner. I more am the type to hang out and play with the kids while everyone else has a …um … discussion.
Maybe it’s because I have personal interests that go beyond just family, I find I don’t have time to worry about the minutia. I just send it up, trust that the good Lord has our best interests in mind, and keep going. …unless of course something happens that needs mama lion to intervene. Then, I come out claws ready!
Thanks again for the tip. Right now, I am doing Monday morning, 1 hr… just to ease the transition. For BOTH of us.
HI Ash,
Oh, I bet you did cry. I know I will. (Yet, suddenly, I will have all this writing time…
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Hope her first day is fabulous and she loves it.
I do remember my first day of school. I distinctly remember my first crush too–it was in kindergarten and his name was Michael Hart. But, alas, he ended up liking a beautiful little girl named Karen. I was heartbroken. Ah, my first broken heart!
Thanks for the trip down memory lane.
Renee
Twitter: wiremamma
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We took her for a special daddy/mama/big sis lunch at Red Robin, then to the mall to buy a special present for her little sis.
Now, all she can do is ask when we can go get her sister!
Thanks for dropping in… hope you’re well. I can’t get over the thought I’ve left something important … like forgotten my keys, wallet, or phone. Or arm. Or heart.
It’s tough, but now is the time for her to speak up. To put some of those lessons we’ve taught into practice. and start working harder on others!
*sigh*
Hope your little one is doing well! Time really does zap by. Whoosh! There goes summer!
*((hugs))*
Ash
My husband and I were just discussing first days of school the other day. We both loved school, but inevitably felt those first day jitters. Who will be new? Will my friends still want to be friends? What will my teacher be like? What’s for lunch?
In the end though, it was all fun and exciting. I’m sure I’ll cry when it’s time for my little one to go to school, but I have a few years to go.
Twitter: wiremamma
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I think I must have done my freak out/cry session in May. hard to swallow…but I think it was pride. She colored her self portrait, cut out her shapes, wrote her name, and had time to doodle a picture of her dog & cat. She’s ready for kindergarten…
I told her she has a special friend we’ve never met just WAITING for her in class… there are only 6 of them in there… they’ll be a tight little pack, I’m SURE.
Emma, hope you’re feeling well… know we’ll miss you while you’re in newborn bliss.
Twitter: KrisKennedy
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Ash~
Aww, sweetie, hugs to you and your hubby. What a wonderful, bittersweet threshold day for your family (although mid-August seems early, doesn’t it?)
I know I’ll cry when I drop my little guy off for his first day of kindergarten in a few weeks. It’s a big, big moment. I’ll check in with you after.
I don’t recall my own first school days, and I think I’m glad. LOL
Congrats, and here’s some more tissues.
Twitter: wiremamma
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Okay, Kris.
I wasn’t teary. NOW I am. *sniff!*
Today will see how the rubber meets the road. Yesterday was just an hour. Today is the REAL DEAL!
One good thing, she is the kind of kid that her brain goes a million miles an hour. Why’s the sky blue? Why is there air? How does God make kittens? (*snort!*) all last minute, right before bed conversation!
I’m really hoping stretching her mind and learning new things is really going to help her get to sleep earlier. She’s such a night owl. Always has been.
Good luck! and keep me posted… we’re in it together, aren’t we?
Ashley, I’m sending a hug too! I’m not a writer, but a reader but I love to visit with you all here and share in these up and downs and all the great chat on the reading!
I dealt with this both ways. I remember with my daughter bringing her with my hubby and how I cried! He brought me to breakfast and then took me to a couple of places and before you know it, she was home for the day and was so chattering! She went through it as a breeze while my heart ached more so seeing how she’s growing and not so much the baby now. My son did the same but when I needed to change him to the school for the deaf, I was thrilled with my choice but so worried for him because it was alot for him more to adjust to. I didn’t get that chance to go to a school for the deaf (I so wanted to, I was mainstreamed) and the school was so wonderful communicating so much to me. So let yourself cry, laugh,, wonder and all those feelings because they are part of us being moms!! By the way they are now 23 and 19!! Cathie
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Cathie,
I’m glad you chime in. I always love to read your comments!
I love that story about your kids… You did the best thing for your son, and you. That’s what motherhood’s all about, right? Standing back and letting them shine?
WHY is that so hard? I have no idea. But, It’s something I’m getting better at. Trying, anyway. It’s about them, now. We’re on the sidelines, cheering.
Appreciate you, sweetie! and have a great day!
Ashley