I knew this day would come. 
I knew it when I picked up that sweet little bundle of pink blankets and inhaled the warmth of dreft-scented towels, powder, baby lotion, and Johnson & Johnson’s shampoo. I knew it when I kissed her sweet cheeks, and counted ten fingers and ten little toes.
Someday, I’d be sending her off for her first day of school. But that was YEARS in front of me.
I had YEARS to hold her, play with her, teach her songs, make her smile, giggle, belly-laugh. Years more to wipe away tears, and hurts, and teach her that though other kids might be cruel sometimes, she chooses how to respond to them. Years still, to teach her what it means to be a big sister–to love and protect her sweet baby sis, and if she did, she’d have a forever friend.
Then, last weekend, it happened.
We were shopping at Target, and turned the corner, and ran smack-dab into school supplies. SCHOOL SUPPLIES!
My husband made some comment about getting some crayons, glue sticks, paper, and a pencil box to get her ready for Kindergarten.
The sight of the princesses, Tinkerbell, and pink and purple binders made DD#1′s little eyes light up.
“Is it really time for school, mama?” she blinked at us.
“Almost, sweetie.” My husband tousled her swishing ponytail. “Just a month away!”
Cheers ensued, and the shopping frenzy began.
I sagged into the cart, watching them fill it.
Here we go! That school bus rubber is meeting the road. School is around the corner (albeit, it’s Kindergarten and not School School), but–I have to admit this. I’m not ready. They’re ready. But I’m not. How can it already be time for my sweet baby to go to school?
I’ll put my brave face on. I’m going to do everything I’m supposed to do as the mama. But, seriously? I’m having fits of anxiety to beat the band.
Any suggestions, mamas?



Twitter: violaestrella
says:
Aw, Ashley, they grow up so fast, don’t they? My suggestion is to savor the moments. And be glad she actually WANTs to start school. How great is that? Remember, too, that the little time away at school gives you a chance to refresh and be a better mama when she gets home.
Twitter: violaestrella
says:
PS – Cute pics!! They’re adorable!!
Twitter: wiremamma
says:
Thanks, Viola!
We spent Sunday early morning watching home movies of the first month DD#2 came home. *sigh*
Yeah. I’m gonna cry. I know it.
Twitter: jeannieruesch
says:
Ash, I wish I knew what advice to give, but I’m a few years away from experiencing that so I’ll be asking YOU then.
I know I reeled a little on the first day that I dropped my son (age three) off at his babysitter’s and instead of standing next to me, arm around my leg (or asking to “see Mama”), he dropped his blanket and ran off toward his friend, saying, “Bye, Mama!”
I wasn’t ready for that, by any means. My baby was becoming a boy. Argh.
I knew in my mind that it meant I was doing something right — he felt secure and safe enough to do that. But still… the heart still pangs.
Hugs to you, Mama friend!
Twitter: wiremamma
says:
Heart pangs are part of motherhood. My sister gave me a little sign that read:
Mothers hold their children’s hands for awhile
and their hearts FOREVER.
Misting! won’t cry!
When I drop DD#1 off at playgroup, she stands at the window shouting “Bye mama!” “I love you!” “Bye mama!” … until she can’t see me anymore. It’s so funny… all the neighbors call to me out their windows as I make the trek home.
She’ll do great. Me? Still a ?
Aww Ash they are too cute!
I remember with my older one that shopping frenzy, picking out the perfect backpack, lunchbox and new outfit. She was so excited. I took tons of pictures on our porch and then on the bus…. and I got to the busstop like 45 minutes early that afternoon just so I wouldn’t miss her getting off.
Just remember to keep being excited for her! I think right before she was supposed to go my little Ash got really nervous about the bus and meeting friends, but I just kept pumping her up, and she was fine. I think sometimes its even harder for them than us. We know what to expect, or what will happen, they have no idea. All they know is they are REALLY big girls/boys now. And SCHOOL, WOW!!! lol.
Color on her napkin in her lunch with a heart and how much you love her. My daughter loves that! I sneak in special treats too to surprise her, a cookie, or small chocolate, or something.
Also its the little one you have to worry about too. She’s going to feel left out. You might want to do something special with her on that first day, even if its just baking cookies for your older one.
HUGS!!!
Twitter: wiremamma
says:
Eliza, you’re such an excellent mama.
I didn’t even think of the napkin notes – but MY mama used to write me a special note, draw a heart, a sunshine, a puppy dog… on napkins when I was little. that memory just slammed to mind when you said that!
Okay, now I miss HER! LOL.
Thanks for the tips, and DD#2 starts Big Girl Pre-K on that very same day. We’re picking them both up for ice cream & a trip to the pool that afternoon.
She has her own backpack, and I’ll be sending her a special snack, too. Not one to be left out of anything!
Thanks for commenting. ((hugs))