I had a hard time titling this blog. At first, I called it ‘How Much Time Do You Need?’ because I really wanted to know how much time other mom-writers required to write well.
Then I titled it something about a plotting method. Then I tried something like, ‘Writing Hot vs. Writing Smart.’
But eventually I realized it needed to be titled Hunting Down The Muse, because really, that’s what it was about.
I suspect I’ll be writing along this theme more in the future, because being a mom with writing contracts (yay!) it’s far too easy to let my muse go skinnydipping on her own. And far too difficult to write a good book that way.
My debut book came out last month from Kensington, THE CONQUEROR. Before that, my life was as different as it was before having a child. I had time. I could write when the mood struck. There would always be more of it. Time that is.
Not now.
Now, there are deadlines. Now there are sleepless nights to disrupt not only schedules but the various Creative Well access-points, so the most I can do is grunt when my mouse won’t work, until I realize I haven’t plugged it in. Now, there are promotional demands. Now, there is someone requiring my time and attention and love and devotion to help build a solid foundation for his life.
These are all good things. (Well, okay. The last, and maybe the first, are good things.) But this new life, of mommy-writer, doesn’t lend itself to a lassez-faire, hands-off type relationship with my Muse.

Couldn't find a grizzly picture, so I'm giving you my dog. But that's just how I used to (metaphorically) sit, staring into the distance, waiting for the muse to arrive.
Therefore, my methods have changed.
I used to sit on a far ridge and observe my muse from a distance, like you might a grizzly bear. Oh, hello over there. Nice day, hmm? Those berries you eating? Yummm. Well, I’ll be over here, playing with old paragraphs. You know, whenever you’re ready . . .
Nowadays, I pull on my boots and go hunting.
Don’t worry, I won’t belabor the metaphor any more than that.
But, as moms and writers, we all know there’s the Ideal World, and there’s the Practical World. The one with husbands who actually want to see you, the kids who want your hugs, and who you want to hug back. You know: our lives.
In an Ideal World, I’d write in bunches. I’d write ‘hot.’ I could write 22 hours a day for 3 days straight, if I was moved. I’d still write regularly, but not every day, and that would consist of more editing. This was my preferred method. Things got done, pre-child. Lots of writing, lots of ‘writing hot’, lots of excitement.
Now, I am a mom, and things are oh so different.
My Practical World requires me to write every day, preferably NOT in the evening, after everyone’s in bed. It’s just not my best time.
In my Practical World, I have to plot out my stories, which I never did before. Took pride in not plotting, I think. But in my Practical World, I can’t simply wait to write ‘hot.’ I can’t wait for the passion to find me, I have to go hunt it down.
So, while my son is in preschool, or playing another friend, or the couple days of day care I have, I smush all my writing into those chunks, and aim to be fantastically productive. For the most part, I write every single day.
And to my surprise, I’m discovering this might be a better method.

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Writing begets writing. Being a writer means I really should be writing, shouldn’t I? And not only when hot. Discipline matters. I get better when I do things that are difficult. I get better as a writer, better as a person.
I think. LOL I hope!
One thing I know for sure: Writing only when ‘hot’ is a luxury I cannot afford.
And maybe that’s not such a bad thing.
What about you?
Have you ever needed to hunt down your muse? How do you do it?




Kris,
Groans and moans and fist flying…
Not mine, of course, my muse’s.
I am so in that place right now. I just can’t get this last bit written. I sit at the computer, staring blankly or whining about how I just can’t get this plot stuff figured out.
So I took your advice, hunted down my muse and drug her back here with me.
I think you’re right. Discipline is important (I have to be beaten over the head with that concept). For example, my kids just got out of school and I thought we’d just lay low for awhile – no chores, no schedules, etc. That worked for about a day then everything went crazy – fights, arguments, cries of “I’m bored”, rules broken that are so ingrained they can recite them in their sleep…
For me, the same thing happens with writing. I need structure and discipline. I work better that way.
Want to go muse hunting together some day?! Great post!
Tiffany :0)
Twitter: wiremamma
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Kris,
This is so timely. What to do after the novel is published? WRITE ANOTHER ONE. That’s the advice I’ve received. Okay… roll up sleeves. Short stories are nice, but I need another book. Maybe an agent for this one. And the plot outline COOKS.
I’ve threatened my muse with a goal of 1k words a day. Every day. For the next 3 months.
It takes me about an hour and a half. that means, an hour and a half before everyone else wakes up — which is NOT easy.
But every day, I know I’m going hunting. I will write something in my story — weave in a new chapter, progress the plot — which has veered off course. I’m steering in a hurricane! but we’re going SOMEWHERE.
Thanks for this. How nice that we’re not alone!
~Ash
Timely post because I need to get more discipline in my life with regards to writing. Wearing too many hats to just go with the flow. Thanks for sharing what worked for you!
Twitter: KrisKennedy
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Oh, I’m so glad it resonated for you girls! It’s amazing how we sometimes need to hear (or in my case, say) what we already know. It helps move it along the pipeline, into action.
Oh, and I’m not sure why only the 1st picture showed up in the post. Hmmm…. too bad. Cuz my dog’s super cute.
Twitter: violaestrella
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I’m so with you, Kris! Yes, I hunt that woman down and sit on her on some days. But I realize once I give her my full attention, she does the same. I think maybe she’s in cahoots with my sometimes neglected characters. Hmm…
Great post, Kris! As Picasso said, “Inspiration does exist, but it must find us working.” Butt in chair, and the muse will show up. Of course, getting the butt in the chair is the hard part sometimes
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Discipline! I remember that. It was, for me, while my children were at home. Now, my days are nebulous, unless I make my own plan. That may sound like Nirvana to those who still have babies to command every moment, but it is just another kind of organisation. My muse is a wild child, wandering aimlessly, her map a hidden treasure. Today, she will learn to dance to my tune…I hope…:-)
You sound just like me! lol
BTW…Just sat down with THE CONQUEROR, finally!!!! It’s been sitting here calling to me
I am totally loving it! Your writing is quite humorous
HUGS!
This article is so timely and I can so relate. I think I wrote more and found my muse more easily when I had an infant to take care and was babysitting. She spoke to me so often I couldn’t get my muse to be quiet. Now… She’s hiding on me so well I can’t find her even though I look and search high and low for her. I have two stories longing to be written, one is a WiP, the other something new but without my muse I feel so lost and helpless.
I guess it’s time I started looking for her just a bit harder, instead of just gazing out into the distance hoping for a glimpse or a whisper.