Award-winning historical Romance Author Emily Bryan is in the midst of a 50-day blog tour. We’re so happy to have her visiting with us today. Check out her post to see how to WIN a SIGNED copy of her upcoming release, VEXING THE VISCOUNT!
MW: Your life has been crazy lately as you have a fabulous new release coming up and are on a 50-day blog tour. How are you keeping yourself sane? Are you having a blast?
Emily: Thanks for having me here, Mama Writers!
So far, I’ve been able to stay a few days ahead of the blog tour. It’s a little like having 50 deadlines to meet. Sending my posts in early keeps me from getting too anxious and probably takes a load off my gracious hosts as well. Since I’m blogging ahead and my release is slated for February 24th, I’m starting to see the light in the “blogtunnel.”
The tour has been great fun. I’ve met some wonderful readers and blog owners. There have been a few technical glitches here and there, but I’ve learned a lot over the past 50 days. Some of the blogs gave me access to go in and post myself, so I had to figure out WordPress, which seems less intuitive than Blogger (I use that platform for my blog http://www.emilybryan.blogspot.com ).
I’ve really enjoyed the merry group of commenters I’ve dubbed my Blog “Touristas.” It’s been lovely to hear from some loyal readers throughout the tour. I suspect I’ll have blog withdrawal when this is over.
MW: What do you think you’re teaching your children by being an author and writing for a living?
Emily: I’ve done a lot of different things over the years. I was a professional opera singer, choir director, homeschooling mom, teacher, realtor and banker. When I first made the decision to get my real estate license, one of my daughter’s friends said, “Your mom can’t do that. She’s a teacher.”
My daughter fired back, “She’s a renaissance woman. She can do anything!”
It was one of the proudest moments of my life. (And I rewarded her by hanging a ‘will sell houses for tuition’ sign on my back for the next 4 years!) In my quest to find what I really wanted to do (writing, I’ve finally come to understand) I was teaching my daughters that it’s ok to take risks and try something new. We don’t have to stick with only one thing in this life. And all our experiences prepare us for the next adventure.
When I first started writing, I wondered if I’d ever publish. My daughters had no doubts.
MW: Your children are grown now. How do they view your career? Do they read your books?
Emily: They regard it as a family accomplishment. When I started writing in 2001, they were both still at home. That meant when Mom was writing, they learned to do their own laundry, fix the family dinner, and help their dad clean the house on Saturdays so Mom could write all day. (That was my prime writing day since I was working a 40 hour a week 9-5 job then as well). They are proud of helping me achieve this dream.
And no, they haven’t read my books, except for selected scenes (the non-explicit ones). They refuse to believe their Mom knows enough about sex to write about it!
MW: Did any of your children inherit the writing gene? If so, what type of writing do they do?
Emily: Yes! They both are noodling with some stories. The oldest is really into fantasy and has a couple chapters of a story with a real kick-butt heroine in an alternate universe. Very compelling premise. She’s let me read and critique it, but she only occasionally takes my advice. After all, I’m still her Mom. I haven’t reached the stage where I know all that much yet.
The youngest just bought herself a laptop and is working on a children’s book. The story is told from the POV of a terrier. Very cute.
Whatever else my girls decide to do with their lives, I’m so glad they feel empowered to express themselves this way.
MW: How do they feel about their mom’s spicier scenes?
Emily: My sex scenes are pretty hot and I’ve told the girls they can read them after they get married. For some reason, that got a lot of laughs. My daughters assure me the scenes probably aren’t too hot for them to read, but the “ick” factor of a sex scene written by their mother is just too high!
I’ve tried explaining that the love scenes in my books are about my characters’ journey, not their Dad and me, but evidently they are not swayed by that argument.
You know, I might feel the same way about a sex scene written by my daughter!
MW: What was the best piece of advice you ever received regarding a writing career and being a mama?
Emily: I don’t know that I’ve ever received any mama writer advice. Mind if I offer some?
Our children catch attitudes more quickly than a cold virus. They model our behavior more thoroughly than they’ll ever obey our spoken word. I believed I’d raise readers if they caught me reading often. When my kids were younger, we turned off the TV and had D.E.A.R. Time (Drop Everything And Read Time) each day. That meant cuddling and reading aloud when they were young. When they were older, it meant 30 minutes of each of us cuddled up our chosen book. It was a wonderful, refreshing time for us all.
If your children see you writing, why not encourage them to take it up as well? If they are very young, this might be coloring while you write, but they’ll catch the idea that it’s cool to express yourself through the written word. Teaching your kids about re-writing and polishing is a perfect way for you to help them learn about proper grammar, punctuation and spelling. Even if they never take up writing as a vocation, you’ll be giving them a tremendous gift—the ability to write concisely and clearly. It’s rarer than you might imagine.
MW: Your new historical romance, VEXING THE VISCOUNT, is due to be released on February 24th. I love the concept! Your heroine in the book is a masked courtesan by night. Sounds like this will be very hot. What inspired the concept?
Emily: My heroine Daisy is desperate for an adventure. At first, she only intends to play a French courtesan for one night at a masked ball. Then when she fools Lucian (the vexed viscount in the title) into believing she really is the infamous French courtesan Blanche La Tour, the game goes on. As Blanche, he accepts her as his partner in the search for a lost Roman treasure. But no self-respecting courtesan would grub about in the dirt, so “Blanche” sends Daisy to represent her interests. Lucian finds himself attracted to both of them. Hence the vexation!
I already knew my heroine Daisy from a previous novel. She was the 10 year old orphaned niece of my pirate hero in PLEASURING THE PIRATE. She’s not the oldest of the 5 sisters, but being intelligent and naturally curious, she’s the ring-leader in all their exploits. It was only natural that Daisy would deserve her own story.
Check out a excerpt at http://www.emilybryan.com.
MW: If you could go back and do something different about how you handled the mom/writing combo, what might it be?
Emily: I’d have started sooner. That’s all.
MW: What is your favorite shopping splurge?
Emily: When I can find them, I love to buy shoes. It’s not easy for me to find attractive shoes because I need a wide size. Last time I went to DSW, when I asked a clerk to show me some shoes in wide width, he took me to a tiny shelf filled with some extremely ugly grannie shoes. I almost asked him if a complementary walker came with them.
Feeling thoroughly depressed, I went to the mall to return something and accidentally found a shoe department with a wide selection of wides! O joy! I went a little crazy and bought 4 pairs! My “duck feet” are very happy!
MW: Last week, one of our Mama Writers, Stacy Dawn, wrote a blog about guilt and mothers holding the market on it. Is guilt something you think all moms struggle with?
Emily: Yes. If not for what we do, for what we are. I’ve wondered for years if it was genetic or if something I did during pregnancy is responsible for my younger daughter’s learning difficulties. As moms, we want to make everything better. I’ve finally made peace with the idea that some things just are.
MW: What is one thing your readers would be shocked to learn about you? Don’t be shy…
If you’ve been following my blog tour, you already know I’m recovering from colon cancer surgery. I mention it because it’s a type of cancer people tend to feel embarrassed about. I mean, we don’t have pretty little “awareness” ribbons (What color could they possibly be?) But colon cancer is the 3rd leading cause of death among women and though age is the biggest risk factor, it can strike anyone.
I had no symptoms, but my sharp GP looked at the cancer in my family history (My Mom is a breast cancer survivor and my dad’s had prostate cancer) and said I was due for a screening colonoscopy. Turns out, she was right.
I had part of my colon removed in December and fortunately the cancer had not spread, so my oncologist is not recommending chemo. I’m so blessed that the cancer was caught early.
So listen up, ladies. Your family needs you. Of course, you have your yearly mammogram. But if you (or someone you love) is 50, or if there is cancer in your family history some experts say 40, it’s time for you to add a screening colonoscopy. Trust me, the thought of the procedure is much worse than the fact. They give you really good drugs. And it just might save your life.
MW: It’s the end of the day and remarkably you’ve just checked off the last item on your “To Do List,” what do you do now?
Emily: I step into my marble shower and let the hot water stream over my body until the glass door completely fogs up. Then I get into some comfy pj’s and spend the evening cuddling with my DH. (And a couple of dogs who always want to be in the middle of any lovie-ness.)
MW: True or False: Dreams do come true?
Emily: They definitely come true. I’m a firm believer in writing down your dreams (goals). Even if you never look at the list again, you’ll be surprised how many you accomplish. It’s as if your subconscious has been programmed to bring those things to fruition just by the simple act of writing them down.
MW: What are you working on now? Where can readers find you?
Emily: I just finished my novella for a Christmas anthology that will be coming out next October. Now I’m in the brainstorming stage for the next story and it’s really too gelatinous to share right now, but I hope to have a proposal in to my editor soon.
I’d love for readers to visit me at:
http://www.emilybryan.com (While you’re there, check out my Write Stuff pages. It’s 7 pages dedicated to YOU, the aspiring writer.)
http://www.emilybryan.com (You can drop me an email, sign up for my newsletter or “friend” me on many social networks. Check out http://www.emilybryan.com/Em’s%20Links.htm )
Thanks so much for having me, Mama Writers!
MW: Thank you so much for being with us, Emily!
Emily’s CONTEST: I’m thrilled to be able to offer a signed copy of VEXING THE VISCOUNT to someone who leaves a comment or question here at MamaWriter today. Be sure to check back tomorrow to see if YOU are the lucky winner!

Daisy Drake is leading a double life! By day, she’s Lucian Beaumont’s unwanted assistant and by night, she masquerades as the masked courtesan, Blanche La Tour, a Frenchwoman who agreed to give Lucian lessons in sensual love!
There’s only one problem. Daisy speaks fluent French and can read ancient Latin without moving her lips, but she doesn’t know the first thing about the pleasures of the flesh!
Good thing she has the real Blanch La Tour’s very explicit memoirs for guidance.
Lucian Beaumont, Viscount Rutland, longs to see his family’s standing returned to its glory days, before his father lost their fortune. And he thinks he can manage it, if he can only discover the hiding place of an ancient Roman payroll.
Daisy never forgot her girlhood fascination with Lucian, even though his father has a score to settle with her uncle. Now that they’re all grown up, she’s determined to help the viscount find his Roman treasure.
Whether he wants her help or not!
What they are saying:
“Bryan’s delicious and witty romance has engaging characters whose fast-paced adventures will truly delight.”–RT BookReviews
“Simply too delicious to miss! Fun, fresh, romantic, passion filled and yes even adventurous. This one has it all!”–NightOwl Romance Reviewers Top Pick!
“Emily Bryan’s Vexing the Viscount is not your ordinary historical romance. It’s fresh, well written and chalked full of the unexpected, the spectacular, and the intriguing. If you’re not drawn in by the heroine and her fiesty nature in the first few pages, you’re obviously not a true historical romance fan.”–WeWriteRomance.com




LOL! I just took an awesome on line class with Renee and Eliza Knight! It was super fun. I always say this being a woman who has raised three kids! The hardest ,most challenging and rewarding job I ever had was being a mother! I would so do it all over again in a heart beat! My kids reward me often with their accomplishments! From one mom to another…. you may reach the number one best seller list many times in your careers, but your true success sits across from you at the breakfast table each day! Enjoy every precious moment, for they grow so fast! (can you tell I am an empty nest mom
LOL!
Hi Jane! So happy to see you over here at MW! Glad you enjoyed the class. You’re so right about true success
Renee
Hi Jane!
You are so right! Sometimes I look at my girls and literally just stare with probably a dreamy look on my face, and they go “What? What?! What?!?!?” Because inevitably I’m daydreaming about what great kids they are and don’t hear them speaking
Glad you like the class!!! And welcome to MW!!!!
Eliza
Hi Emily!
Glad you’re here today at MW! It was wonderful reading about your values and accomplishments. You were a professional opera singer. How totally cool? Was that your childhood dream?
Renee
LOL @ your daughter’s reply to that person. You may be a proud mama, but she’s obviously a proud daughter too!
Great interview! I can’t wait to read your new book
Emily, “hi,” and thanks for sharing a little about yourself with us. I enjoyed the interview….and I loved reading about D.E.A.R time for your family. Such a wonderful idea.
JaneL–So true! Our girls are the joy of our lives. Nothing else comes close.
Renee–Singing opera was a dream that started in college. I never heard an operatic voice while growing up (The only opera my folks believed in was ‘The Grand Ol’ Opry’!) But in my freshman year, I rode a bus up to Minneapolis to see a production of Don Giovanni. I was enraptured. I never knew the human voice could produce such sounds. I had to learn how to do it.
I won the District Metropolitan Opera Auditions and enjoyed some sucess as a regional singer. But then travel became too much when my kids were small, so I now sing at church and community events. It was a wonderful experience to sing with so many other talented people, but I feel I made a good trade.
Faith–That moments stands out because we mamas are usually an embarrassment to our teenage children.
Gail–Thanks!
I had a ball writing VEXING THE VISCOUNT. Hope it shows.
Lisa–Another advantage to D.E.A.R Time is that I got a chance to revisit some old favorites in the kiddie lit section and discover some I’d missed as a child. If a book is worth reading at 5, it’s still worth reading when you’re an adult. How we laughed together over Anne of Green Gables. How we cried over Where the Red Fern Grows. And in those moments of sharing, we developed a secret family language based on the books that are a part of us now. To this day, I know what my daughter means if she tells me something provides so much “scope to the imagination.”
Hi Emily!!
Welcome to MW! Wonderful interview!
I love the idea of D.E.A.R. Time. We always read, but giving it a cool name like that will make it more fun. My older daughter can read now, (she’s 8)but doesn’t seem to have that much interest, she’d rather me do it. Maybe using DEAR, will help to motivate her. When its time for chores, I let them dress up and pretend they are Cinderella
It just seems like the more entertaining a parent makes things sound the more fun it is for them!
Thanks for all of your advice and suggestions! And Vexing the Viscount sounds really good!!!
Twitter: wiremamma
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Emily – so glad to meet you, and hear your take on your expansive career, motherhood, and finally accepting that you are an author!
I am sure having such a broad background in your career has rocketed your imagination. I’ve always been a huge opera fan! I love how your daughter called you a Renaissance woman! My friends always say my daughters have an amazing, extensive vocabulary! I wonder if this is a common thread with all of us!
Thanks for joining us here, and I’m looking forward to your new release!
My question is, how old were your kids when you started writing, in earnest?
~Ashley
Eliza–Cinderella doing her chores–I love it! Any time we make life a game, we capture a piece of our child’s heart.
Ashley–For those of us who find ourselves perpetually drunk on words, I’ll bet raising kids with good vocabularies is a constant. My girls, even the one with learning difficulties, consistently scored in the high 90s for vocabulary.
My oldest daughter told me once that she never was “little.” In her mind, she was always a “big” girl because her Dad and I never talked baby talk and never talked down to her. Our kids’ vocabulary was ours.
They were old enough when I started writing for it to seriously date me if I reveal their ages.
Twitter: wiremamma
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Emily! I love the fact your daughter always thought of herself as “big!” We canned the baby-talk quickly…and I’m forever grateful. Have a great day at MW!
Love the interview! There are so many great things in it. The Renaissance woman comment, the D.E.A.R. time, the cuddling with the hubby and dogs. I’m with you, dreams do come true!
Vexing the Viscount sounds like my kind of book. I’ll have to add it to my collection next time I make it to the book store.
Hi Emily, thanks so much for being here! Your books sound great — I love a good spicy historical!
I also really appreciate your candor about your colon cancer. I know several people who have been affected by this disease. As with breast cancer, early detection is key. As you say, we all know about mammograms, but few people think about colonoscopies. Thank you for the reminder, and I’m so glad your prognosis is good!
Helen
I love your daughter’s comment. Is there anything you haven’t written yet that you want to?
Vexing sound fantastic!
Thanks, Emma! I seriously appreciate everyone who spends their hard earned money on my books. Vexing the Viscount should be in the bookstores Feb 24th. One reader has told me she asked her bookstore to call when it came in.
Helen, I’ve had several people tell me they’ve scheduled colonoscopies because of me. If I can help people gather the courage to have the test, I can take the embarrassment. I repeat, “I had NO symptoms.” But what I didn’t know, could have killed me.
Twitter: violaestrella
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Wonderful interview, Emily! Your daughters sound adorable, and I love that the one called you a Renaissance woman. Talk about raising strong, intelligent women. Well done! And I love the D.E.A.R. time. Good advice.
Emily, this is a great blog! I think writing and parenting go hand in hand, especially as we watch our children learn to read (my daughter is in kindergarten right now and watching her learn to read is so fantastic) and become writers, too (my son recently wrote a story about a penguin which was awesome). Since I am not published yet, I sometimes wonder if I’m a “real” writer. But one time I heard a classmate ask my daughter what I do, and she said “My mom writes stories about Santa Claus” – and I thought, hey, I really am a writer if my daughter thinks so! Glad to hear your health is on the mend…good luck with everything…just got your new book and I can’t wait to read it!- Nina
Anne–Thanks! Yes, there are tons of stories buzzing in my brain that I haven’t written yet. Do you mean would I like to try a different genre? The answer is yes to that as well. I have a half finished paranormal calling to me and ideas for several suspenses.
Viola–Thank you, my girls are adorable. I so appreciate when someone else gets that!
Nina–You write, therefore you are a writer! Composer John Cage called himself a cellist when he’d only had one lesson on the instrument. Kudos to your daughter for recognizing what her mother is!
Great interview Emily, I have really enjoye this blog tour! I have really learned a lot about you and your family. I know your books are great, but I have also learned you have a great family backing you.
Great blog, Emily! Thank you for sharing your experiences.
I agree about dropping the baby talk early! I always talk to my children as I would another adult, explaining as I go along, if necessary. I get so many comments from other adults about how intelligent my 8 and 4 year old sound. I just explain that we don’t talk to them as if they are babies, and that builds a wonderful vocabulary for them.
Twitter: rebelatheartbellsouth.net
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Hi Emily,
That’s funny about your daughters not wanting to think that you know enough about sex to write about it. If I get too cuddly with my dh, my 17-year old son waves his hand in our direction, averts his eyes, and walk away saying, “I’m outta here!”
Yesterday, I was reading Distracting the Duchess when I came across a paragraph that spoke to me as a very blocked writer:
‘With that flash of insight, she realized why she’d been so mercilessly particular with her art, so obsessed with perfection. It was draining all the joy from not only her work but her life as well. And only she could free herself from the crushing weight of the pursuit of the perfect.
Wow! I had my own flash of realization there. Thank you.
Julie
Virginia–I wouldn’t be published without the support of my family. And I wouldn’t have enjoyed this blog tour nearly so much if I hadn’t had the support of regular posters like YOU!
Danniele–I still remember once when my DH had business meetings in DC and since he worked for an airline, the girls and I tagged along so we could visit the National Art Gallery while Daddy worked. There was a visiting impressionist exhibition on display and my kids soaked it right up. We purchased a book from the gift shop so they could see and remember all the paintings they’d just enjoyed. They were poring over it in the waiting room outside their dad’s meeting.
“Look!” the older one said, a finger on a Seurat. “A perfect example of pointilism.”
“I like Renoire better,” the younger said.
The receptionist nearly fell off her chair.
They were 7 & 9 at the time.
Kids will absorb whatever they are given. Period. May as well give them the best.
Julie–As writers, we tend to work on our own issues through our characters. Artemisia speaks to me, too.
Emily,
Me friend Jane hauled me away from the deck of the Romanc Writers Revenge to read your blog. Glad she did so! I find the comment of being a Renaissance Woman very encouraging. I’ve always figured me resume would be terribly confusing. So many jobs!
Me parents encouraged the reading from an early age. I simply do not remember not being able to read!
I look forward to harrassing Jane and stealing her copy of the Vexing the Viscount.
Oops. Did I say that outloud?
loved the interview.
I would have had trouble if I’d have had kids b/c I talk babytalk to my puppies/dogs. Always have. I would have done so to the kids I’m sure.
I am looking so forward to reading your exciting novel…
VEXING THE VISCOUNT.
Just gazing at the cover makes me want to go somewhere quiet and read the enticing storyline that I know will be between the covers!
Emily,
I was so excited to see you were going to be joining the MamaWriters today! I just finished reading DISTRACTING THE DUCHESS and loved, loved, loved it. My favorite thing was how you had Artemisia be so observant. It just fit so well with her character and gave her such a fun edge over everyone else. :0)
We should all be “renaissance women” and have a cheerleader behind us like your daughter. I love what you said about taking risks and realizing that you don’t have to stick with one thing. That’s been hard for me to learn. It’s great to hear it from someone else…tends to sink in a little better than when I tell myself.
Thanks again for taking time to join us today!
Tiffany James
Maureen–Please thank Jane for me! I’m glad she sent you over.
Robin–You can talk any way you please to your dogs. It doesn’t matter if they never learn to speak English. You can spoil them too. It’s not like you’re trying to build their characters or anything!
Andrea–I love my cover too.
Thanks!
Tiffany–My pleasure! I”m so glad you loved my DISTRACTING THE DUCHESS. I loved writing that strong-willed woman.
Glad my “checkered past” helps you. It has helped me. Nothing is ever wasted on a writer. We use it all.
I loved that you share parts of your live outside of writing through these blogs it makes reading an author’s book more exciting. What an exciting life you have led an professional opera singer WOW so jealous. Also loved your daughter’s comment “She’s a renaissance woman. She can do anything!” That is how all young ladies should view themselves.
Tamara–When my oldest was in middle school, the door to the crawl space under the house was in her room. It gave her the creeps so she wrote a story about it. Behind the door was an alternate universe where the most important holiday just happened to be my daughter’s birthday!
When I first read that, I figured my work on her self-esteem was done!
Hi Emily,
I’ve been following you at your blogs for a week and I learn new things about you and your writing everyday.
I love the quote about being a Renaissance woman by your daughter. What insight she had. I’m so glad you’re writing now, as I really like your books.
elainec
Thanks, Elaine. I love writing. It let’s me use everything I’ve ever dreamed or experienced. It’s the most liberating thing I’ve ever done.
I think all moms are Renaissance women. We do it all. We nuture. We teach. We cook, clean & chauffeur. We bring home paychecks. And above all, we love.
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Thanks again, Mamas! I loved visiting with you!
I am so happy to hear your cancer was caught in time. I rejoice every time I hear someone has beaten or survived that horrible disease.
I’m going to write down all my goals and dreams this afternoon.
Looking forward to your new release.